Dating a Shy Girl
Dating a shy girl can be one of the most rewarding experiences for a guy, if dealt with the right way. Boys, you will have to work hard to bring her beyond her inhibitions, physical shyness and awkward moments to connect with you on your date. Reading this will not make you a Casanova overnight. But what it will do, is give you crisp advice and tips on how to deal with your shy date. Read on, be your romantic best and impress your lady love!
1) You choose the place
Are you going on your very first date with a shy girl? It is likely that your date may not want to be left with the daunting question of "Where should we go?" It is better that you choose the place because as you can imagine, a shy girl already has many things to worry about in her mind.
2) A compliment should be your first words
Yes we all know that it is considered one of the basic dating etiquette to compliment your woman. This could not be more true in the case of a date with a shy girl. The very minute you pick up or meet your date, you should look into her eye and tell her how beautiful she looks. The reason? Your compliment will give your shy girl a quick confidence boost and make her feel more comfortable with you.
3) She may look away from you
If you have been used to maintaining eye contact with the girl that you are dating, things may be a bit different in your date with a shy girl. Looking into a date's eyes is not exactly a shy girl's domain and you must understand this. Don't be put off if you fail to make proper eye contact. Ease her into falling comfortable and once you finally manage to break the ice, she will gaze into your eyes till no end!
4) Understand that shyness is not arrogance
If you're dating a shy girl, you may be in for what may seem as a rude reception. Shy girls will generally take their own time opening up and that may sometimes be perceived as rude or high headedness. On the contrary, this may not be the case here and your date may only be taking her own time getting to know you.
5) Do the talking for a change
Dating a shy girl can be tricky for a guy who likes the women to do the talking. Are you one of them? If you are, you may want to know beforehand that this may be your time to do the chatting. Shy girls and for that matter, all shy personalities are not too much of talkers unless they share an extremely close bond with the other person. So be prepared to charm your lady love by chatting her up. Keep your conversations subtle and engaging. Don't engage into too much of flirting straight away because that may make her conscious.
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